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Line up for the Erotic Awards

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As a regular writer for the Society Matters blog I'm very pleased to announce that my book Rewriting the Rules – which I've frequently written about here – has been nominated for an award. This was very unanticipated so I'm stoked about it.  

What was even more unanticipated was the kind of award. Something from the psychology or psychotherapy world might have been expected, but I have been short-listed for an 'erotic award'!

For those who are not familiar with them, the Erotic Awards, initially called the Erotic Oscars, have been running since 1994. They were founded by Tuppy Owens Tuppy_Owens who is a sex therapist who campaigns particularly on issues of disability and sexuality, and the whole event raises funds for the charity, Outsiders, for disabled people and their relationships. My book explores the complicated and contradictory rules on relationships that we are subjected to in 21st century relationships.

Awards are presented presented to campaigners, films, writers, artists, publications and sex-workers, as well as to academics, like me. The Erotic Awards are an annual 'celebration of sexual creativity and diversity' with the goal of helping society become more open about sex and more accepting of sexual diversity.

The other academic finalists are Brooke Magnanti and Sue Newsome. Brooke Magnanti is a biological scientist who recently wrote the book The Sex Myth to counter prevailing myths about sex, sexuality and sex-work. Brooke also wrote the best-selling Belle de Jour series of books which were adapted for a BBC series featuring Billie Piper. I've met Brooke at a couple of events that I've been involved with and she is an extremely friendly and approachable person, as well as somebody who has done a lot of good challenging assumptions about sex and sex-work. 

The other nominee, SueNewsome, is involved in a conference which I'm putting on for COSRT later this year. She is a sex coach, educator and therapist who is also involved with SHADA (the Sex and Disability Alliance) and does very important work in this field.  

I'm guessing that my own work was nominated because, like Brooke's, part of its aim is to challenge assumptions and myths about sex and relationships. Also, one aspect of Rewriting the Rules is to counter conventional psychological work which often tries to explain less common sexual and relationship practices – instead of seeking to discover what can be learnt from people in diverse sexual and relationship communities.

This is important to me because it moves away from the idea that there are normal ways of doing things, and that any other way is strange and problematic, towards the idea that there is a great variety of possible sexual and relationship experiences and understandings possible, and that it is worth tuning in to those which work best for us, as well as reflecting upon the ethics of different possible practices and identities. 

However I'm up against two very impressive co-nominees who both certainly deserve the award. We will see what happens on the night!
Meg Barker 17 May 2013

Meg Barker is a registered psychotherapist with the UK Council for Psychotherapy. She  

  • organises the conference programme for the College of Sexual and Relationship Therapists (COSRT) as well as being on the editorial board of their journal and writing for their website
  • co-organises the Critical Sexology Group which presents open interdisciplinary seminars on sexuality in London three times a year
  • co-edits the Taylor & Francis journal Psychology & Sexuality with Darren Langdridge and is on the editorial boards of Sexualities, Porn Studies, the Journal of Popular Romance Studies, and the European Journal of Ecopsychology.

Catch her Youtube presentations90 second lecture on sex therapy and introduction to bisexuality research in the UK

 

The views expressed in this post, as in all posts on Society Matters, are the views of the author, not The Open University.

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As a regular writer for the Society Matters blog I'm very pleased to announce that my book Rewriting the Rules – which I've frequently written about here – has been nominated for an award. This was very unanticipated so I'm stoked about it.   What was even more unanticipated was the kind of award. Something from the psychology or psychotherapy ...

The plight of the seriously ill, the dying and the disabled in our prisons

Despite small improvements our prison service remains vulnerable to appalling incidents of mistreatment and cruelty. Dick Skellington reports.

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Every once in a while a report shocks and appalls. Readers of the blog will be aware of my interest in prisoner welfare and I have written about the plight of the elderly in our prisons and more recently about the plight of women prisoners

A common thread through these posts reveals a lack of care for individual welfare that at times is alarming. Prisons have difficulty balancing the priority of security with humane and dignified treatment. A friend of mine, aged 76, who has served 29 years in prison, recently had a cataract operation at Kingston Prison in Portsmouth. He wrote to tell me that throughout the procedure he was handcuffed to the bed. My friend, it is a long story, is incarcerated on recall for an offence which he did not commit, has a impeccable record while inside and is not considered a danger to anybody. So you may wonder at my capacity to be surprised by further revelations.

But when I read the report by the Prison Ombudsman, Nigel Newcomen, into risk assessments and the use of restraints for seriously ill and dying prisoners, I was taken aback. Yes the report, which looks at provision in England and Wales since 2007, demonstrates there has been marginal improvements in care. Prisons like Kingston – one of the few prisons in England and Wales which has a wing for elderly prisoners -– have introduced a planned approach to treating sick and terminally ill prisoners, one more tailored to their needs, though do not tell my friend. Nevertheless, despite some sympathetic regimes, a disturbing trail of shocking incidents have been uncovered by the ombudsman.

Over 50 dying prisoners were wrongly chained or inappropriately handcuffed during their final days in hospital. A terminally ill cancer patient died while handcuffed to a prison officer. His condition was only confirmed as terminal two days before he died, but the restraints were not removed even when he was short of breath and could not move far from his hospital bed. Another prisoner in a medically induced coma remained chained throughout. 

The ombudsman found restraints such as escort chains and handcuffs were used on the majority of dying prisoners who were admitted to a hospital or hospice in the last six months of their lives since 2007. In 23 of the 51 investigations restraints had been inappropriately used as recently as 2012, often on frail, infirm and weak prisoners. Longer sentences and more offenders being sentenced later in life mean that prisoners aged 60 and over are now the fastest growing age group in jails across England and Wales, and that it is more likely that prisoners will die in the care of the system. 

"An older and ailing population brings new challenges and the past decade has seen deaths from natural causes outstrip self-inflicted deaths as the principal cause of death in prison custody. In 2011-12, there were 142 deaths in custody from natural causes, an increase of 20 over the previous year," said the ombudsman.

The ombudsman found that prisoners who were already ill attending hospital remained chained and cuffed, even if their condition became terminal. Furthermore, concerns raised by escort or medical staff were not appropriately considered, and restraints were routinely applied according to a prisoner's security category or offence rather than the risk presented and, in some cases, restraints remained in place even as release on compassionate grounds was being sought.

The report concluded that the right balance between decency and security is still not being achieved. Too often an overly risk-averse approach is taken when frail, immobile or even unconscious prisoners remain restrained. The ombudsman recommended that whenever a risk assessment is completed, the prisoner's health and how this impacts on risk should be assessed. Too often the restraints used if the prisoner was fit and well are applied to cases of serious ill-health. It is important that changes in the prisoner’s condition prompt an immediate review of their restraints to prevent them remaining in place longer than necessary.

This report raises serious questions about the humanity within our prison establishment, an establishment further shaken by a report in February following the release of Daniel Roque Hall, a disabled man suffering from a terminal condition, Friedreich's ataxia, which causes loss of physical co-ordination. Daniel was given a three-year sentence after admitting trying to smuggle cocaine worth more than £300,000 in his wheelchair from Peru through Heathrow.

According to his family and lawyers, within hours of admittance to prison, Daniel suffered a spasm and fell from an examination couch, sustaining a head wound. He was taken in handcuffs to a care home for elderly people. Staff there were not given full details of his medical requirements, which included Warfarin, prescribed to thin his blood. He was moved to Wormwood Scrubs, where he suffered further spasms and was denied his full medication. The two constant carers he needs, in case of spasms, were not supplied, nor were the stretching exercises. Hall's condition deteriorated rapidly and in the early hours of 23 August he was rushed to University College Hospital, London, and placed on a life support machine. A consultant at the hospital said Hall's heart had been "stunned" by his treatment at the prison. His GP says his life will be threatened if he is sent back to prison. No longer on a life support machine, Hall remains in hospital while his lawyers seek a judicial review of his treatment. (See article here).

In February the Law Lords at the Royal Court of Justice reduced his original prison sentence to 18 months and Daniel was released. The Court ruled that his serious disabilities which leave him unable to move his limbs, feed himself or use a pen or telephone, meant he should not be returned to prison. Daniel could not attend the hearing, not because of illness, but more worryingly because the Royal Court of Justice does not have adequate disabled access. 

Daniel's solicitor regretted that the Court did not conclude that the treatment Daniel received violated his human rights. His team concluded: 'Daniel's case is exceptional but he is certainly not the only prisoner in England and Wales who has serious disabilities or health problems. All are entitled to expect the equivalent level of care they would have access to if they were in the community, but there are serious concerns about the ability of the prison service to care for them.' Following Daniel's release a spokesman for the prison service commented: 'The Prison Service holds in custody those sentenced by the Courts and it is committed to treating all prisoners humanely and decently.'

Currently the mission statement for the HM Prison Service highlights three objectives. First is to hold prisoners securely. Second to reduce the risk of reoffending. And third to 'provide safe and well ordered establishments in which prisoners are treated humanely, decently, and lawfully'. Perhaps there are tensions in that third objective between delivering 'well-ordered' establishments and decent treatment. Maybe it is time for the service to give decent treatment its own objective, distinct from the desired order of the prison itself.

For, despite the claim from the prison service following Daniel's release, the findings of the prison ombudsman's investigation and the Daniel Roque Hall case demonstrate that the Home Office really does need to do some very clear thinking about establishing humane treatment for sick and disabled prisoners in its care. This will mean the prison service must re-evaluate its commitment to humane and decent treatment, and look again at its mission statement, to ensure it is delivered. The evidence suggests that pious statements are not enough and fool no one.
Dick Skellington 14 May 2013 

The views expressed in this post, as in all posts on Society Matters, are the views of the author, not The Open University.

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Despite small improvements our prison service remains vulnerable to appalling incidents of mistreatment and cruelty. Dick Skellington reports. Every once in a while a report shocks and appalls. Readers of the blog will be aware of my interest in prisoner welfare and I have written about the plight of the elderly in our prisons and more recently about the plight of women ...

Stranger than fiction: 'shop till you drop' wastes your life away

Given the extraordinary measures supermarkets took to ensure that their dirty knickers were not seen in public after their beef was sold dressed as horse, it is interesting to reflect just how quick or how slow it is to get around a supermarket in an average shop. Research – done before shoppers sensibly avoided the purchase of most processed frozen beef ready meals or burgers – revealed that if you shop at Lidl it only takes an average of 49 minutes to get around, 20 minutes faster than runner-up Sainsbury's. 
 
I often wonder how the shopfloor design of supermarkets is influenced by profit motives – and judging by the tempting hurdles you pass on entry, it must be the main focus – rather than to enable you can get around easily, as the familiarity of your surroundings sometimes decreases the amount of time you spend in the store. 
 
Six months ago my local supermarket decided to redesign the shop floor completely and like thousands of shoppers, I wandered the floor lonely as a cloud searching for household goods and finding pet food, and discovering the fresh vegetables were now a clothes rack. Shoppers were not happy that week. It even baffled staff. One assistant spent 10 minutes locating the sea salt I wanted.
 
These small things are important. I can't recall the store ever actually consulting its regular shoppers about the changes. Come to think of it last time I was there I had to help two small old ladies who were trying to reach tins of soup off the top shelf, several feet above their grasp. Supermarkets do a lot of things but they sometimes fail to explore sensible solutions to everyday problems.
 
I experimented. I am rather a staid shopper with specific tastes so I tend to buy most of the same things. I did a week's shopping in Aldi in 24 minutes, and Lidl in 28, while when I shopped at Morrisons, Tesco and Asda, it always took an age. 
 
Research by Taylor McKenzie, analysts, confirmed my experience. An average shop in Morrisons took 1 hour 11 minutes, while Tesco and Asda came in at a disappointing 1 hour 18 minutes. The researchers sent shoppers to stores in Glasgow, Manchester, Cardiff and London in search of 50 daily items. Shopping at some supermarkets will cut the time you spend in a supermarket by two months over a lifetime.
 
So, if you want to spend more time on the important things in life you cherish, you know where to shop. Food for thought, eh? Life is too short sometimes.
Dick Skellington 2 May 2013

The views expressed in this post, as in all posts on Society Matters, are the views of the author, not The Open University.

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Given the extraordinary measures supermarkets took to ensure that their dirty knickers were not seen in public after their beef was sold dressed as horse, it is interesting to reflect just how quick or how slow it is to get around a supermarket in an average shop. Research – done before shoppers sensibly avoided the purchase of most processed frozen beef ready meals or ...

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