{"id":18647,"date":"2021-07-05T10:42:20","date_gmt":"2021-07-05T09:42:20","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/ounews.co\/?p=18647"},"modified":"2021-07-05T10:42:20","modified_gmt":"2021-07-05T09:42:20","slug":"juggling-a-degree-family-and-the-forces","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.open.ac.uk\/blogs\/news\/student-stories\/juggling-a-degree-family-and-the-forces\/","title":{"rendered":"Juggling a degree, family and the Forces"},"content":{"rendered":"

Like many Open University students, Royal Air Force Police Corporal Abi Harding, 32, is no stranger to studying with a newborn baby on her lap. After becoming pregnant during the first year of her Sports, Fitness and Coaching<\/a> degree, determined Abi has continued to juggle her studies, work life and has just welcomed her second child.<\/p>\n

To say life is busy for the mum of two is an understatement, yet Abi\u2019s motivation comes from her family and wanting to secure a career as a PE teacher after she eventually leaves the Royal Air Force (RAF):<\/p>\n

\u201cI applied for university to become a PE teacher, but I decided to follow a career with the RAF, so my academic education stopped at college. I\u2019ve been in the RAF for 11 years now and want to stay in the force for as long as I can, but I also want to make sure I\u2019ve got a career for when the time comes for me to leave. Throughout my whole life I’ve always played sport \u2013 I still play football and rugby for the RAF.<\/p><\/blockquote>\n

“Because I enjoy sport so much, I decided to plan a future career as a PE teacher in primary or secondary. I looked into teaching and discovered that you need a degree and then a PGCE (Postgraduate Certificate in Education) to become a teacher, so I thought I\u2019d start by studying a degree in something I enjoy and know a little bit about and that\u2019s why I chose to study sports coaching.\u201d<\/p>\n

Managing family life and study<\/h3>\n
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Abi says her children are her inspiration<\/p><\/div>\n

Abi\u2019s course is part-funded by her employer and finding a university that would allow her to study around work and other commitments was essential. After a colleague recommended the OU, Abi realised part-time flexible learning would be a perfect fit for her needs. However, life was about to get even busier, as she explains:<\/p>\n

\u201cWhen I started the first module in October 2018, I found out I was pregnant with my first child. I had an assignment due three weeks after the birth \u2013 I was a bag of emotions! During most of that first module I was working full-time Monday to Friday. I did my OU study two evenings a week for two or three hours. When it came to writing assignments, I would put in extra work to make sure everything got done.<\/p>\n

“I\u2019m now on my third module and I have a one-year-old and a newborn, which is a challenge! Trying to juggle work, being a mum and doing a degree at the same time isn\u2019t easy. You have to make yourself do it. Studying is not always something you want to do when you\u2019ve had a day of it, but you\u2019ve got to get it done. Some nights I just want to sleep!\u201d<\/p>\n

The juggling act of being a student-parent<\/strong><\/h3>\n

Abi admits that there have been times when she has been close to giving up her studies, especially when her second child was just born. \u201cI felt so tired of trying to juggle everything,\u201d she says, though she is determined to finish what she started:<\/p>\n

“My family has inspired me because it\u2019s going to benefit all of us in the long run \u2013 and, if I\u2019m honest, myself, because I\u2019m a very determined person. And because I\u2019m interested in the subject, I find all of the work enjoyable. Learning doesn\u2019t seem like a chore if it\u2019s something that you enjoy.\u201d<\/p><\/blockquote>\n

If Abi needs advice or support, she knows she can also rely on her tutors and the rest of the OU student community:<\/p>\n

\u201cThe tutor support you get with the OU is massive. I don\u2019t even start my assignments without going to the tutorials because I find them really helpful. Really engaging. And because the students are all logged on together you can all ask questions in the chat bar about anything you don\u2019t understand. It\u2019s great because sometimes people will ask questions that maybe you didn\u2019t think of. Or get answers to things you wanted to know but you didn\u2019t know how to phrase the question. Personally, I massively benefit from the tutorials.<\/p>\n

\u201cI\u2019m in a WhatsApp group for the module and it\u2019s supportive because there\u2019s a lot of people in there that are in a similar situation to me. For example, there are students who are studying while home-schooling kids. When they\u2019re saying, \u2018I can\u2019t do this\u2019, you know that you\u2019re not the only one thinking that.\u201d\u00a0<\/strong><\/p>\n

\u2018It will be worth it in the end\u2019 <\/strong><\/h3>\n
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Abi playing rugby for the RAF<\/p><\/div>\n

Abi is now in her third year of her degree and though she doesn\u2019t plan to leave her RAF role anytime soon, she knows studying with the OU now means she will be ready to step into a teaching career in the future:<\/p>\n

\u201cDoing the OU course means I know that I\u2019m set up for life, so that when the time comes it\u2019s just a case of doing the PGCE and getting qualified teacher status, and then I can be a PE teacher.<\/p><\/blockquote>\n

\u201cIf you\u2019re thinking of doing an OU course I would say look into what you want to do first, to make sure it\u2019s definitely the right route for you, and then just enjoy it, embrace it. Accept that there will be times when it\u2019s not that easy, but it\u2019ll be worth it in the end.\u201d<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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