{"id":8945,"date":"2018-05-15T11:45:00","date_gmt":"2018-05-15T10:45:00","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/ounews.co\/?p=8945"},"modified":"2018-05-15T11:45:00","modified_gmt":"2018-05-15T10:45:00","slug":"what-can-i-do-about-my-mental-health-when-i-dont-have-the-support-i-need","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.open.ac.uk\/blogs\/news\/education-languages-health\/health\/what-can-i-do-about-my-mental-health-when-i-dont-have-the-support-i-need\/","title":{"rendered":"What can I do about my mental health when I don\u2019t have the support I need?"},"content":{"rendered":"
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What can you do if you’re not comfortable talking about mental health issues with your peers? Dr Jonathan Leach<\/a> and Dr Mathijs Lucassen<\/a>\u00a0suggest six ways of getting the support you need.<\/p>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n

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While good relationships with other people can support good mental health and be a source of help at times when our mental health is challenged, not everyone has this support network.<\/p>\n

This could be for a variety of reasons. They may have become isolated, or the people they know might not be comfortable talking about emotional and mental health issues.<\/p>\n

So what can you do if you are worried about your own mental health but don\u2019t have the social support you need?<\/p>\n

1. Talk to your GP<\/h2>\n

GPs are used to talking to patients about a whole range of life challenges, including mental health issues. Just sharing your problem with someone else can be very helpful and GPs should know what other types of support are available locally.<\/p>\n

“<\/span>Sharing experiences helped me understand what I was going through and how to make sense of it”<\/em><\/p><\/blockquote>\n

If you don\u2019t feel that a particular GP you have seen in the past is the best person to talk to, ask the receptionist or the practice manager about other GPs in the practice who have a particular interest in helping patients with mental health issues.<\/p>\n

2. Use online or\u00a0telephone support services<\/h2>\n

Consider using online or telephone support lines, so that you can communicate your worries or issues to someone.\u00a0MIND<\/strong>\u00a0<\/span><\/a>, the\u00a0Samaritans<\/strong>\u00a0<\/span><\/a>,\u00a0Depression Alliance<\/strong>\u00a0<\/span><\/a>\u00a0and others all offer help and you don\u2019t have to be at crisis point to contact them.<\/p>\n

There are also nationwide online support groups for particular conditions such as depression, surviving abuse, anxiety, and hearing voices, which can be found through internet searches or by following the links provided by organisations such as\u00a0MIND<\/strong><\/a>,\u00a0SANE<\/strong><\/a>,\u00a0Support in Mind Scotland<\/strong>\u00a0<\/span><\/a>and the\u00a0Mental Health Foundation<\/strong><\/a>.<\/p>\n

3. Look for local counselling or psychotherapeutic support<\/h2>\n

Counselling and other forms of psychotherapeutic support should be available in your area, although there are often costs associated with this and there can be waiting lists for those provided by the NHS.<\/p>\n

Some areas have free or low-cost counselling services provided by the voluntary sector and it is worth searching online for these or asking your GP for details.\u00a0NHS Choices<\/strong>\u00a0<\/span><\/a>can help you find psychological support under the Improving Access to Psychological Therapies programme.<\/p>\n

4. Search for self-help groups<\/h2>\n

There may be mental health service user run self-help groups in your area, which deal with issues of depression and anxiety through to ways to manage hearing voices. Most of these will be online so it is worth searching what is available near to where you live.<\/p>\n

5. Practice relaxation, mindfulness and read self-help books<\/h2>\n

There are a range of self-help books, leaflets and websites covering most mental and emotional health issues. Many promote relaxation techniques and meditation practices such as\u00a0mindfulness<\/strong><\/a>\u00a0which you could use to help yourself. The information provided by\u00a0MIND<\/strong>\u00a0<\/span><\/a>is a good starting point.<\/p>\n

6. Try voluntary work or sport and leisure activities<\/h2>\n

Becoming actively engaged in community activities through volunteering, community education, or sport and leisure activities can be a good way of connecting with other people and improving your physical and mental health. Your local library will be a good starting point to find out about such activities, or check out the BBC’s Get Inspired page<\/a>.<\/p>\n

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Many mental health problems can be addressed by getting support. Although it can be tempting to \u2018wait and see\u2019, if you have had difficulties for several weeks or more, perhaps consider one or more of the suggestions above.<\/p>\n

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References<\/h4>\n

Leach, J (2015)\u00a0Improving Mental Health through Social Support: Building Positive and Empowering Relationships<\/em>, London: Jessica Kingsley.<\/p>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n

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